The Gay Experience

LGBT History through the ages

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With the shocking outcome of the 2016 Presidential election the LGBT community now finds itself moving beyond shock and grief to a realization that organization is imperative if we are to combat the attempts that we know are coming to derail or eliminate hard fought LGBT civil rights.  


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My father asked if I am Gay
I asked Does it matter?
He said No not really
I said Yes
He said get out of my life.
I guess it mattered.

My boss asked if I am Gay
I asked Does it matter?
He said No not really
I said Yes
He said you’re fired faggot
I guess it mattered.

My friend asked if I am Gay
I asked Does it matter?
He said No not really
I said Yes
He said don’t call me your friend
I guess it mattered.

My lover asked Do you love me?
I asked Does it matter?
He said Let me hold you in my arms
For the first time in my life
Something matters

My God asked me Do you love yourself?
I said Does it matter?
He said Yes.
I said How can I love myself- I am Gay.
He said that is what I made You.
Nothing again will ever matter.

An Anonymous high school student :From “Growing Up Gay/Growing Up Lesbian- A Literary Anthology

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An LGBT History Overview 

As years progress many people today may be hard pressed to recall the original meaning of the term “gay”. Historically the term is most likely derived from “gai”- an old French word dating as far back as the 12th Century and used to note someone happy and full of mirth. It isn’t until the late 1800’s that the term evolved to denote any type of sexual behavior. During this period it was evolving into a reference to female prostitutes, or (ironically) men who slept with female prostitutes. During the early periods of the 20th century the term’s sexual connotation became reinforced and most likely became greatly popularized during the period of World War I.  It was soon after this, during the 1920s, that the term “gay” was being expanded to also include men who had sex with other men. It took another World War and the years immediately following it for the term to become more associated with homosexual activity. Soon after, during the 1950s, homosexuals themselves started to using it as a self-defining term, seeing it as much more attractive label than the common slang or demeaning terms of ‘homo”, “queer” or “fag”.

By the end of the 1960’s “Gay” started being a recognized term in the social mainstream, and was greatly propelled to common usage soon after 1969, the Year of the Stonewall Riots. (see the History Timeline) It is traditionally used to define homosexual males but in many circles can also be an umbrella term to define homosexual females, or lesbians, as well.  In the most recent generation “Gay” has also become one of the key terms which denotes the cultural subset more specifically referred to as  “LGBT” (or Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender). It is an interesting side note that in the late 1970’s and 1980’s some youth cultures started evolving “Gay” to denote someone as silly, stupid or ignorant, whether the person was a homosexual or not.  However, it seems that modern society itself has evolved to accepting the term “Gay” as denoting just another cultural subset. presents a collection of important people and events that helped shape and evolve the Gay culture we know today. Many of these you may already be aware of, others not. We think you’ll find the historic timeline section helpful in understanding that being a homosexual in the ancient world did not  have the stigma applied to it as in recent times- and why Gay Pride today means more than just a word. Enjoy our highlights of LGBT history!


timeline of historical eras and events which helps illustrate the evolution of The Gay Experience


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